Excluding the verb to be and trying to make what you think you are more about what actions you take can give you more perspective. I am intelligent. That's a fixed point. People tell me i am clever with science. It's, you know, it's relation as well. You're not a doctor. That doesn't mean that you'll be a doctor for the rest of life. Therefore, if you want to recreate yourself, you do start with a story but then you have to do the things that make you that story.