The Mother Is Responsible for Background as Well as Foreground

Mother's function is to create an environment for her baby in which it is safe to be nobody. She must let the baby find the object, not just provideit immediately. When this space is offered to a child, it develops into the capacity for unrestricted, unimpaired awareness that becomes the foundation for looking into the self in later years. By byaccessing this ability, we are able to feel our way into ourselves,. Just as the infant learns to explore her early environment. And so you can at least temporarily drop out of fixation on outcomes that you can't control and i think that's powerful. Our brains ash, if we really practise, we can have these moments of meaning a