As they ramp up emotionally, they they get the right behavior from you. They get the support that they want, which in turn, like reinforces the dependence. So how do you deal with it? Couple of things. Te thing is you have a conversation about it, hopefully non judge mentally. Then what you've got to do is ask, like, do you want to change this? Like, yes or no? Cause, like, this is becoming difficult for me.