I've Accidentally Kissed My Mam on the Lips

I love affection, but i'm not like a kiss on the lips person. I haven't kissed my mam on the lips in years. Sometimes i feel though that i'm being rude if i put out my hand to shake. But it's like, i don't owe anyone. In new york, we do a lot of ln the cheek, i sang,. and you don't know if that person just went to europe. There during the dal sometimes they do the air kiss.