I'm Not Compleasing the Person, Is This a First Date?

"There is so much fun at play here, you guys," he says. "If they don't give you a clear signal at the end of the first date, like, I had a good time and we should do this again ... Who the fuck knows? They might have hated your guts." He adds: "The standard wisdom used to be waiting to call, but now there are so many different means of communicationNow that I think you can stair step back up!"