How to Set Rules of Engagement for Side Projects

I've also put on here a stop saying wait a minute to my kids and this really impacted me when I read that so I feel like I've kind of already been doing this but yeah well we should definitely check in on that next time. There's a there's a he mentioned in the first section this concept of rules of engagement which I don't think I've ever really done. He also mentions creating a monthly plan template which is  a really good idea I've already done that for my daily thingso I want to take that a step further and create something to help me theme my my months. Finally, what are the four things basically that I want to keep score on that