Are You Drawn When You Feel a Need for Someone Else?

For me, i'm driven when it's about someone else to fulfil the worth worthiness part of it that i'm trying to drive to get someone else is reassurance or whatever. Or feel a need for someone else. Verses: "i'm drawn when i'm feeling a need for myself that isn't selfish" If you didn't need to wory about money, w woud you do? And i can completely picture what that would be.