Nine Kids on the Moment They Knew Their Marriage Was Over

There's a whole genre of essay in usually American progressive media by women who've kind of blown up marriages and right reflective essays on how they were justified in doing so. And I think that the reason, the reason that defensiveness exists is because of a strong sense that it's not true. So you just have to kind of bludgeon people with social pressure. It's like, I had to do this for me.