"I am done seeking purpose and joy and fulfillment in comfort. What he discovered is that everything meaningful?" "Quitting porn will be a byproduct of feeling uncomfortable," she says. 'This isn't oh life is so hard. Oh, I just hate this,' you can learn to feel discomfort as part of your journey toward self-mastery. "'All right, this is joyful, hard and joyful, difficult and joyful growth' That's what we're going to do here."