I've been really bad with that in the past. I've put more slack in the line than there than there needs to be because I like just trying to be copacetic. And you know, entrepreneurs talk about decision fatigue all the time. And this is a version of like kindness fatigue. Ultimately what happens is you sap all the energy and you stop being kind to yourself. You're not going to do that. Here's how I expect it to go. These are basic, if that's slightly aggressive, but let's just say firm stands you're going to have to take so you can be chill at home.