Less Overthinking, Secure Functioning, and 2 Actions for Relationship Success - Stan Tatkin - 451
Relationship Coaching School Podcast
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The Importance of Justice
The attachment system says I can't quit you because of nature's blue, which we confuse for love. So I need you, but I can't live with you because you're too dangerous and that goes in both directions. And yet we know that people have gotten out of this since the beginning of time when they've had to. People will get out of this because their lives depend on it. How do we convey that to a couple that knows that intellectually? As soon as they're in the room, I want my justice. Yeah. Because that's really hard to get out of if you even can.
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