The Role of the 40-Year-Old Virgin

"I definitely did not become a man just by losing my V card," he says. "We don't really have one, unfortunately, a classical defined rite of passage for men anymore in the Western world." Men can get into their thirties and forties without actually going through any kind of real meaningful rite of passage, turning them into men anymore. But I think a man knows when he has gone through that. It's hard to define now, but it'd be something that would push you out of your comfort zone, sort of make you confront the fact that no one is coming to save you'