Do You Have a Couple's Conversations About Socks?

LZ Granderson: Arguments are always symptoms of not feeling appreciated somewhere else. LZ: I can like hire a train a dog to go pick up socks on the floor, or I can do it myself out of love and like, no, just because it's something I want. "It's amazing right like you don't want the kitchen counter the same way I do and then it turns out to mean that we're not loved," she says.