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Episode 186: Shame, DARVO & Spiritual Bypassing - Let's get to the bottom of it! ft. Jasmine Holmes

Bare Marriage

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Darvo: Deny Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender

Darvo is a strategy used systematically by abusers or abusive systems to make the victims feel like they are actually the ones that fault. The idea of someone being trashable versus a China tea cup is still in the 2021 edition of great age, great dates. And so was it any wonder that we hear from girls who say like, well, I was sexually assaulted by my boyfriend and then I kept on thinking back to what I was wearing. Maybe I had incited the lust in him. maybe I had just worn the wrong thing.

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