I'm a Woman, Shut the Fuck Up, You Have a Vagina

As a child, though certain elements of the religion felt confusing and extreme to her, Frady doesn't exactly clock the misogyny and xenophobia. Early on, she doesn't clock the abuse that's going on at home either. It's all she knows. This is the thing about being born into an abusive family: You don't really have a sense that what's happening to you is not normal.