LZ Granderson had a conversation with his mother about how to be a good parent. She was apologizing for certain things that she wishes that she had done differently. LZ: "I really felt the urge to do the child thing and be like, no, no, you didn't do that bad" He says it's our responsibility to show them i can be wrong and i'm still here. 'You were the exact mother i was meant to have,' he writes.