The sperm competition theory is that it has to be under conditions where females ae had sex in close temporal proximity, or else it doesn't matter. It's literally, like, that's why they say recent sexual history. So then what do you do though? i would think that you would need a conscious awareness that you've detected the sperm somebody else. And as far as i know, that doesn't happen. But then also, like, you would still have sex with te woman, caus it's better than nothing, right? Like, that's why i thought, like it has to be that. The goal is more long term here, is to note, oh, i have
We’ve promised you for years that we would do an episode on apologies and never got to it until today. So we both want to say from the bottom of our hearts: we’re sorry. We recognize we’ve let so many of our listeners down, and we feel just awful if you were offended by the delay. We hope this episode will be just one small step towards regaining your trust.
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- Pham, M. N., & Shackelford, T. K. (2013). Oral sex as infidelity-detection. Personality and Individual Differences, 54(6), 792-795. — From the abstract: "The infidelity-detection hypothesis for oral sex proposes that men perform oral sex to gather information about their partner’s recent sexual history."
- Clearer Thinking | How to apologise
- Schumann, K., & Dragotta, A. (2020). Is moral redemption possible? The effectiveness of public apologies for sexual misconduct. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 90, 104002.
- Ohtsubo, Y., & Watanabe, E. (2009). Do sincere apologies need to be costly? Test of a costly signaling model of apology. Evolution and Human Behavior, 30(2), 114-123.
- I Was Wrong: The Meanings of Apologies by Nick Smith :: SSRN
- Dan Harmon Apologizes for Sexually Harassing Megan Ganz | Time