Why Do We Want What We Want?

Why do we want what we want? Is it something that's kind of built in all of us? Or is it shaped by our childhood's and our life experiences? I think it's a range of things. We are drawn to transgression and negotiating rules andn edges and limits. And we we feel triumphant when we can turn something around. So there is a kind of inner tension that plays outor for just about everyone at different moments in life.