How Do You Listen Again and Again?

One of, one of your colleagues and once asked me, as you guys were preparing for a performance in a buddhist temple in japan. He said to me, so my wife can't stand to listen to my playing shaka hache. And i had to reflect that em at first it was, there was an irritating quality to over and over and over again. But when i grasped that, then it was really interesting for me, and i didn't have a problem with the listening changed. Is back to the metaphor e used earlier, by listening to silence. E, a, that's a good that. That's a nice phrase.