There's a really good line about the way that Mr. Bennett feels about Mrs. Bennett oh no um does he call her silly? He thinks that she's I think everybody is just like so many of the people in this book are just worried about dumb stuff and they like approach everything in like why do you why though way  I guess it's partly the society that they're in right like obviously being married is is important on on a lot of levels and some people take that more seriously than other people I guessYeah I'm interested in that you know and I'm sure as people go to like school just to study Jane Austen all the timelike as someone who did not get married