The point of mentorship is not politeness, it's growth and development. Have the conversation with your peers if you don't have a trusted relationship in that way. If I'm clear that the narrative is about them and not me, because everybody's not your ally. And again, as I sit at the intersection of black and female, he's not my ally.
One of the primary reasons we work is to earn money, but many of us feel uncomfortable telling others how much we make. This fear may be working against women, because research has shown that salary transparency can help narrow the gender pay gap.
With the help of experts, we explore the complexities of talking about our salaries. First, an economist walks through the pros and cons of disclosing your pay. Then, the host of a personal finance podcast explains why she encourages people to speak openly about salaries. Finally, an HR executive gives advice on how to deal with the gut punch of learning that a peer makes more than you do.
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