"I'm basically seven years older thate. I realize, like a student's i stopped comparing myself in terms of ages" "You feel ashamed for being older, but that experience is going to ike be, at least for me it was," she says. 'We become the people that we are, not just through our successes, but through our failures' You can't look yourself in the mirror again and say that, you've be doing good,' he adds.