Penis Vagina Sex Off Limits

I think that this happens like the prioritization of what sex looks like and if it's penis and vagina then that is off limits which is something that they were that was off limits for them. I have thoughts about what we can get to into it later but at the same time I was like this is spontaneous it's happening I don't need to push against this because I recognize that all the things that we're about to do are gonna be it's all sex so okay well while we're there yeah. It just is pretty inherently like a little bit homophobic because I'm just like well if we're all touching each other and making out an oral and fingers and all so like all sorts of