All or nothing thinking keeps us from progressing. Success is not measured by days clean, but measured by urges process. Your failures make you stronger even here with the pornography. If you're ready to apply what you're hearing in this podcast and finally overcome pornography for good, I'd love to be your coach.
In today's episode we talk about all or nothing mindset. This is one of the most common things I see with my clients.
All or nothing mindset looks like, “I already messed up today, so I am not going to try for the rest of the day”, “I can’t start until i’m 100% sure I can do this”, and by counting progress as number of days without pornography instead of counting progress as number of urges processed.
In reality, quitting pornography is like learning any new skill. Failure does not keep us from quitting, it teaches us and helps us to become stronger as long as we learn from it.
You will love this episode.
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