Are You Rejecting Sexual Touch When You Know You Don't Want It?

How do i establish a boundary that allows desired sexual touch, but it eliminates these instances that i don't welcome? So again, you want to think about it in terms of self definition and defining the terms of your engagement. If you can't respect my no, you're not going to get a yuess from me. I wouldn't be loto having those people start addressing it in terms like 'I don't like that' Now, some people make beo, you're trying to control him. No, that's self control. A lot of times people do feel controlled when you set your boundaries.