How to Cope With No on a Wedding Day

"I think the only reason I felt a bit performative was because I agreed that I was trying to put my heart into it and see it play out, even though I had already told Mark, I didn't think we had a future," she said. "The biggest thing for me was on the wedding day ... We had decided to say no, there was no saying yes." She added: "There's this psychologist in Seattle who talks through what are all the psychological issues for each of us"