105. Answering Your Questions: People Pleasing, Toxic Traits, & Fear Of Cheating
Honeydew Me
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Trying to Justify Your Partner's Toxic Behavior
People often learned in childhood to tolerate all sorts of crap because children have the one option. We just, we believe that because we are inherently unworthy of love, if we are to get any scrap of love or care, we need to tolerate all kinds of crap to get it. And so we stay with partners whose behavior really doesn't work for us because we tolerate it. It also feeds into that victim narrative that keeps us from doing that horrifying thing, which is being alone with ourselves and knowing ourselves.
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