
Negotiating Better Relationships with Kwame Christian
Everyday Better with Leah Smart
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The Importance of Keeping Friends
I felt like I was getting a badge of honor historically for keeping all my friends, for like, never having fights. The first time I had an experience of losing a friend, it was devastating. A good friend doesn't lose friends. And if I do, then that's an indictment of me. But then I started thinking about my relationship portfolio, just like a stock. 80% of the value is going to come from 20% of the stocks and vice versa. Same with the people in your lives. You have to persuade yourself in order to adopt new beliefs.
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