The Importance of Shame in Sexuality and Masculinity

There is a thing called prostate milking. If the prostate is enlarged and hardened that you can help to make it more supple just like if you got a knot in your trapezius muscle, somebody massages it. So it can be helpful. And if you do it too hard, too fast, too long, it also can hurt the guy and he's like, oh, ow. I don't directly address it but I teach tools to exit it. What do we call it? Tangentially. Like I come at things often indirectly because sometimes coming at something head on can trigger someone to retract, pull away, shut down, close their ears, etc.