Victimology has come a long way since its finger pointy 1940s beginnings. Kelly noted that when she writes with her colleague Mary Dodge, that they really try to establish the importance of the victim's experiences. If somebody comes to you saying the right thing, getting them help and saying it, you are not to blame for this. I don't care if you are in a tiny skirt and high heels in a sparkly bra, you don't deserve to be victimized any of it.

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