Well-Brought Up People?

When we talk about politeness, so we talk about polite people. We can also paraphrase it using the word well-mannered. Do you say well-bred in America? We do, but we have a slightly different connotation that goes along with it because it comes down to your genetic history as well. So with families are connected with your family. But it means that the generations of one family were brought up well and matched well. In this context, meaning with other members of high society,. Other wealthy families who pay the same level of attention to politeness, to manners, to etiquette. Wow. What's another? Well-mannered people or well-bred people or