I think lots of people who are straight or mostly straight could really benefit from thinking about sex in a slightly more queer way because for me that just means like curiosity and playfulness. I remember there being advice that when I started sleeping with women and people with vulvas that you was like oh well you've got one so it'll be easy but you never look at or touch your own vulva or vagina  from that I've got it's a mine field, she says.

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