Self worth is oftentimes given to you, which is weird, because it's sort of self worth. But if we think about kids who grow up confident and loved, like they have a huge advantage. The first thing that we have to be super careful about is mis diagnosis. Human growth in human connection happens with mentor ship. It comes from other people. Even studies of a border line personality order and narsotistic personality disorder clearly demonstrate the value of social connection. Being a part of community that cares about you, is huge for your own sense of identity.