Being a patient can feel like a lonely experience, especially when you sense your doctor is disconnected. A rushed or disengaged interaction can leave patients feeling unheard and uncared for, no matter how clinically skilled the physician is. At the same time, doctors struggle with overwhelming workloads, which can lead to unintentional detachment from those they treat.

In this episode, we explore five ways to build connection in the exam room quickly, why small gestures matter, and how intentional preparation can change the entire dynamic. Finally, we dive into the emotional complexities of patient care and the essential role of listening and presence in preventing burnout. Our conversation centers around the ‘Presence 5 Practices’ from this article.

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Guest Bio: Clay Smith, MD, is an Associate Professor of Emergency Medicine at Vanderbilt University. He is triple board-certified in Internal Medicine, Emergency Medicine, and Pediatrics and the founder of JournalFeed, which provides concise, daily summaries of top medical journal articles.

We Discuss:

The Disconnect Between Patients and Physicians
Why Genuine Doctor-Patient Connections Matter More Than You Think
Easing Patient Anxiety and Shame
The Impact of Preparation and Focus on Patient Care
Listening Intently and Completely
Aligning Care with Patient Priorities
Building Trust by Connecting with the Patient's Story
Understanding Emotional Cues
The Delicate Balance of Antibiotic Stewardship
Understanding Fear Behind Patient Anger

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