People-Pleasing as a Scam Vector

Kit Perez joins to discuss the art and science of resistance in the publishing world, why Amazon is not evil but simply a machine designed to extract value, and how independent authors can build a true signal in a noisy marketplace.

Kit applies her unique background in intelligence and trauma counseling to the struggles of the modern creator. She explains why unhealed attachment wounds and “people-pleasing” leave authors vulnerable to industry scams, and breaks down the three non-negotiable rules for escaping the ecosystem: owning your audience, controlling your distribution, and setting the narrative. She also discusses the “Jersey Shore” effect of traditional publishing and why the only valid response to a cancellation mob is indifference.

In This Episode

* Why “fighting the system” is a waste of time and how to treat Big Tech as a tool.

* The difference between performing resistance online and actually moving the needle.

* Kit’s background: applying intelligence analysis and trauma counseling to the author community.

* Why you need to stop renting customers from Amazon and start owning your readers.

* The danger of “people-pleasing” and how it makes authors prime targets for scams.

* The “Sellout” Myth: A nuanced look at creative autonomy and envy.

* How to handle online mobs and why being disagreeable is a superpower.

* The future of the Big 5 and why they are chasing the “Reality TV” demographic.

* How to build a parallel economy based on structural trust.

Guest Links

Kit Perez

* shepardscale.substack.com

* The Mindset of Resistance - https://a.co/d/eYasFJC

Kristin’s Links

* Services & Content

* Editing Services: nonsensefreeeditor.com

* Newsletter: Fictional Influence on Substack

* YouTube: Nonsense-Free Kristin

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Timestamps

00:00 - Introduction and Guest Overview02:02 - Kit Perez’s Background and Expertise02:55 - The Intersection of Trauma and Resistance04:23 - Challenges in the Publishing Industry05:23 - Strategies for Independent Authors13:09 - Building and Owning Your Audience18:25 - Defining Success and Selling Out22:26 - The Complexity of Character Identification23:27 - Alan Moore’s Stand on Movie Adaptations25:00 - Diverse Perspectives in the Indie Community25:53 - Facing the System: Resistance and Infiltration27:50 - Managing Writing and Marketing Tasks with ClickUp28:45 - Memoirists and the Risk of Scams30:04 - Protecting Yourself from Publishing Scams30:42 - The Dangers of People Pleasing33:41 - Navigating Cancel Culture35:13 - Balancing Independence and Capitalism38:56 - Steps Towards Meaningful Independence41:44 - Predicting the Future of Indie Publishing44:43 - Final Thoughts and Where to Find More

About This Podcast

Nonsense-Free Kristin is where independent authors and creators learn to build their platforms, master their craft, and create on their own terms—without begging for permission from gatekeepers who hate them.

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