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Anonymous, i grew up believing in my bones that sex before marriage was an outright sin. I recently started dating a christian woman who has challenged that view. She is not promiscuous and still guards her sexuality. But she claims that sex beforemarriage is only sinful if it's solely for selfish and immediate gratification or if there is no love or any sort of relationship involved. In my personal research, i've been very surprised by what the bible doesn't say. Because of my conservative upbringing, i was under the impression that it would be clear as day. But what i've actually found are vague references to sexual immorality and no good definition of what that really means. Please help