What's Your People's Painkiller?

Vanessa Navarrette: I think so many people right now are hurting in so many different ways that they don't need. You should know what's a really good day for them at work and what's areally bad day for them, she says. She suggests asking your partner the same question to get an idea of their best or worst days. "What do you dread when you sit on your calendar? And that's what we can get into today"