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Attachment Theory and the Science of Desire feat. Andrew Huberman, Ph.D.

Girls Gotta Eat

CHAPTER

Anxiety in the Avoidantly Attached

Trying to make the avoidant person anxious is a terrible strategy. It might work in the short a but ultimately it's going to cause great resent and the punishment will come. Jealousy is yet another form of autonomic kind of it's an arousal state. Once you can start to predict how often someone will respond, two things happen. If they can't control their own behaviour, now you know you're dealing with somebody who's not really a fully formed at all. They really haven't left infancy. And it's some love on none of us because of the circuitry that'm talking at. But that should be a very simple conversation if people still have those gunna talk conversations

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