Relationship Is a Threat, It's an Actual Threat

For me, all the things are on innocence and perfectionism. When we're able to see each other a not as machines. We get so embodied in thinking of ourselves in ways that we can objectify each other. Close to one another is a threat and our bodies respond to it that way. So if there is a mistep or disagreement or a failure, it's an actual threat. And i want to be allowed to struggle and be in relationship rather than struggle and isolate myself because of perfectionism. I don't want to harm either. But i need to know that we are, we are allowed to be human together. That being more human together is actually more of what liberation is