Is Someone Controlling You?

When somebody's overly controlling or a helicopter within relationships it's usually stemming from a place of deep insecurity right we control people because we feel insecure and that's a whole nother conversation but then eventually what will happen is if somebody is insecure and controlling you from an insecure place it's inevitable they're going to get mad. They're going to blow up and they'll get angry for not doing something that you want which will revalidate your wound or your limiting belief of I'm not enough so it's almost like you get this sense of oh my god they care about me because they're so on top of everything that I'm doing and they want to know where I am at every minute,