The Letter Writers X

We keep getting letters from people who identify as female who are like my boyfriend is telling me that they want to break up with me because I don't have enough hobbies. My theory about this is that actually these people have hobbies but that these like sexist men don't see their hobbies as somehow valid enough. This is an incredibly wounding thing that unfortunately will still wound you long after you have intellectualized it healed from it accepted it. It's just wildly unnecessary and arguably cruel.