It took me two months to start doing stuff. It's been three months since then, and i was desperately trying to forget her. She has been in my head every day for the duration of these five months. If she wants to talk to you, she will. Don't build your identity around someone who discards you when it's good for her. Being desperate is repellingk, a hey, her name. Do you want to talk about things between us? Life is surt short, i'm well assuredk,. so two options: One is have some self respect. The truth of the matter is that sometimes we're sort of not starved for affection, but like addicted,