Do You Need to Talk to Xes?

Manny has been in a relationship with dale for three and a half years. On one hand he relies on him for love and support, but also doesn't want to hurtdale. There's a balance between clueing him in my life and exposing him to pain by getting him into the inner workings of my own romance and love and relationship. So we did a whole episode the first season, i think, of this podcast, about whether people should talk to xes. And obviously there are no universal rules, but i want to talk about how keeping him in your life has both helped and been a support system - which might not be true.