Is There a Cost to Being at the Ten Out of Ten?

Happiness is elusive if you're constantly analyzing, do i have it yet? We really want to get to a point where we're feeling grateful and noticing the good stuff in our lives. Sometimes, if your pushing happiness too much, that can be costly. The need for change is that we don't notice our absolute objective status. People who live in southern california don't appreciate the weather ause its just perfect all the time. When you live in the northeast, you get enough sucky days that all of a sudden, when it's sunny, out.