When Someone Takes Advantage of You, That's a Boundary Issue

i'm confused on the difference of speaking my truth and standing up for myself. When somebody takes advantage of you, that is a boundary issue. But when it comes to standing up for your fthere's a way to do it where you don't have to be hurtful to someone. I actually call it honoring yourself while honoring others. And i like to look at it that way. Whenever i have any type of boundary issue, or i feel a violation in any other way, i like to make sure that i am honoring myself while honoring those i care about. Because what is the result? We don't necessarily want to lose the relationship, unless you do. In my case, i