What if you stopped waiting for other people to be ready and started doing and BEING everything you ever wanted?

If you’ve ever questioned whether staying in something familiar—whether it’s a relationship, an identity, or a version of success—is costing you your true self, this conversation will crack your heart open.

In this raw and deeply expansive episode, Jessica sits down with Almost 30’s Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik to explore the courage it takes to choose true alignment over old patterns. Krista shares the vulnerable, powerful unraveling of her marriage—and how walking away from a misaligned partnership became the portal to her truest glow-up. And Lindsey pulls back the curtain on how motherhood and partnership have sparked curiosity, alignment, and ease beyond what she thought was ever possible. At the center of it all, they explore the sacred role of friendship during life’s biggest pivots, and the gift of having someone witness your expansion and invite you towards your most magnetic self, even when you forget your own magic.

For anyone walking through a season of shedding, recalibrating, or redefining what success means on your terms—this episode will feel like a breath of truth.

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In This Episode We Talk About:

Upleveling as an uncomfortable yet expansive process
Writing their book as a cocooning, alchemical experience
Comparison traps and letting go of success metrics
The importance of emotional safety for feminine embodiment
Divorce as a spiritual portal to authentic self
Healing family dynamics and masculine-feminine imbalances
Recalibrating ambition through motherhood and partnership
Communal intimacy and in-person connection as soul fuel
Redefining worth and value outside of productivity
Feminine energy beyond bubble baths: structure, safety, and expression
How self-respect habits transform your energetic frequency
Human Design as a permission slip for self-expression

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Krista and Lindsey’s book: Almost 30: A Definitive Guide to a Life You Love for the Next Decade and Beyond
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Expanded x Ep. 197 - EXPLAINED Divorce and Relationships w. LMFT Janelle Nelson
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The Expanded Podcast is the top manifestation podcast hosted by Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, and co-hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer, Jessica Gill. Rooted in TBM’s Neural Manifestation™ process, the show blends neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and energetics with a touch of spirituality to help you manifest and step into your most authentic self.

Each episode features TBM teachings, community stories, and tools to reprogram the subconscious, heal your inner child, and reclaim your worth. We explore astrology, human design, internal family systems, and more to shift your energetic blueprint.

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