The Importance of Separating Both Parties

i can absolutely see where people who are so private about their kink life like maybe they're afraid of their family finding out. i'm wondering if it was the pure boldness of being so open and saying look i'm standing here under oath that's a bold move because she's putting her name on we're in a consensual BDSM relationship. I wish i kind of knew more about what the jury was told and what they heard  in this case at least be upfront and honest about what happened yeah right right but at leastBe upfront and honestabout what happenedBecause if you're not it could be a whole lot worse. If your partner is showing bruises going, don't just say