We've Lost the Vision for Love

The bible says that where there is no vision, the people perish. If we don't allow god to be the source of love, what we get is relationships that are corrupted and infected with evil. I believe we get the vision by raising the standards, the standard of love,. Let's talk about standards for a second. How came whenever we set the standard, our instinct is to lower it? No one's ever saw a standard and gone, oh, cowmano. Do more than that. They go, that's the standard. This makes the reference point in the starting point from love, not love itself, not ourselves, but god.