Tongi is one of those French names that I always found kind of funny. It's a nice name, but it's not a name that we have in England. And so Tongi for me in my head was Tan Guy. Because it's like, let's spell T-A-N-G-U-Y Tan Guy. But they were never really that Tan anyway. Cara: When you do live abroad or when you do live in another culture, and you notice differences which you find strange or difficult to understand or maybe frustrating, it's always worth remembering that it's just it's not weird, it's just different.