I've Been on a PA and I'm Not Sure if It's the Opposite of Emily

I think for me I'm the opposite of Emily and this question-asker that I'm more comfortable hearing about you know and feeling good about my partner having emotional connections. If there's some insecurity there either insecurity within myself or insecurity with the stability of the relationship that could be more challenging to deal with. When I hear about a partner or partners having sex with other people sometimes that can turn me on but then the reality is like I don't necessarily want to hear about it. It also gets complicated because of course like if your partner is coming home and divulging all this private information about like what this person genitals looked like then then it gets tricky, says Detaker.